Portland Erotic Ball 2023: Through My Lens
A Return to the Scene
The Portland Erotic Ball 2023 was a reunion of sorts for me—a return to a familiar event, but with a fresh perspective after a few years away. Walking into the Crystal Ballroom felt like slipping into a pair of old, well-worn boots: comfortable, reliable, and full of character. This event has always had a chaotic, vibrant energy, but this year it seemed even more amped up, as if everyone was making up for lost time since the pandemic.
Before the action kicked off, I had a chat with another photographer who was already knee-deep in editing photos backstage. I get it—there’s a rush to get content out fast—but editing while the event is still unfolding? It felt like he was missing the point. The magic of an event like this is in the unexpected, the unscripted, and I couldn’t help but feel he was letting those moments slip through his fingers in favor of some quick, forgettable edits. To each their own, I suppose, but for me, the focus was on capturing the night as it happened.
Despite the hiatus, I wasn’t a stranger to the Portland Erotic Ball. My photos have graced their promotions for years, and after reaching out, I was welcomed back with open arms. Sasha Scarlett, the event’s fierce and fabulous host, even told me I was already booked for next year after seeing my work. That’s the kind of relationship you can’t buy, and it’s one reason why I keep coming back.
Now, let’s talk about that costume contest—pure, unadulterated chaos in the best possible way. With over $5,000 on the line, the stage was a madhouse. Knowing how fast-paced and unpredictable it gets, I positioned myself at the back with a telephoto lens. It was the only way to get the shots without getting swallowed by the crowd. Sure, from their perspective, it might have seemed like no one was snapping photos, but trust me, the results speak for themselves. The other photographer? He might’ve been getting in the thick of it on stage, but I wouldn’t be surprised if he found himself swallowed whole by the chaos of the contest—it’s the kind of scene that can consume you if you’re not careful.
A definite highlight of the night was meeting Autumn Ivy (@autumnivyofficial), who was every bit as cool and down-to-earth as I’d hoped. After sending her some shots from the event, she mentioned she’d love to collaborate in the future—definitely something I’m excited to explore.
Among the colorful array of costumes, one that stood out was a Sexy Ned Flanders—not as part of the contest, just a fun, irreverent twist that added to the night’s unique vibe. Then there was the photo booth area—same setup as in previous years, occupying a significant chunk of the ballroom. It’s popular, no doubt, but I can’t help thinking how much more could be done with that space. Give me that booth, and I’d throw some creative, unique lighting in there and really make those costumes pop. It’s all about seeing the potential and knowing how to make it work.
Final Thoughts: The Portland Erotic Ball 2023 wasn’t just another event—it was a welcome return to a scene I know and love, full of moments that remind me why I do what I do. Next year’s already in the books, and I can’t wait to bring even more of these unforgettable moments to life.